I have two Macs on the same network, I want to control one of them headless from the other. I have tried the built-in remote management but it is so slow it is un-usable. The connection between them is fine 5ghz wifi full speed but the lag is incredible.
Is there a VNC (or other protocol) that would work better in real time? Also, another few desired features not supported by built in screenshare. Would be awesome if one of the Macs could be connected to VPN and this still work. Finally I would like to use the mic/camera from main mac on the headless mac if at all possible.