Appreciate this is quite an old thread, but I had the same problem and managed to resolve it by following the steps below. Not sure if the OP is still having the issue, but thought I would post it anyway in case anyone stumbles across thethis could assist others finding this thread.
Steps followed (from memory)
- Create a test new user account on the Mac
- Log into that account, configure iCloud (switch off everything apart from Notes sync if you want)
- See if the permanent syncing issue appears using the test user. If not, then all good - proceed with the steps below.
- Allow the Notes sync process to complete and stop.
- Exit Notes.
- Use Finder to go to ~/Library/Containers/com.apple.Notes/Data/Library/Notes
- There should be 3 files in this folder. Take a copy of the files and move them to a location you can access using your normal user account (a shared folder or similar).
- Log out of the test user and back into your normal user account.
- Shutdown the Notes app if it is running.
- Navigate to the ~/Library/Containers/com.apple.Notes/Data/Library/Notes folder again.
- Overwrite the 3 files in this folder with the 3 files taken from the test user account.
- Start up Notes - hopefully the sync will start and then stop.
Good Luck
Regards
Neil.