I had this problem today on a machine with Ventura.

While file sharing, accounts and everything seemed to be configured correctly, I could not see the contents of the remote Desktop , Documents and Downloads folders. I could see and write to the other folders, like Music or the root of the share which is my $HOME.

The problem disappeared after completely disabling File Sharing in General > Sharing, rebooting, and re-enabling File Sharing.

I had this problem today on a machine with Ventura.

While file sharing, accounts and everything seemed to be configured correctly, I could not see the contents of the remote Desktop , Documents and Downloads folders. I could see and write to the other folders, like Music or the root of the share which is my $HOME.

The problem disappeared after completely disabling "File Sharing" in General > Sharing, rebooting, and re-enabling "File Sharing".

Also check under "Privacy & Security" > "Full Disk Access" if you have "smbd" allowed.