Per comments...
defaults read com.apple.notificationcenterui
gives
{
TodayView = {
NoContent = (
"com.apple.reminders.RemindersNC"
);
keyWidget = "com.apple.ncplugin.calculator";
order = (
"com.apple.reminders.RemindersNC",
"com.apple.iTunes.today.TodayExtension",
"com.apple.iCal.CalendarNC",
"com.apple.ncplugin.weather",
"com.parallels.desktop.console.Resource-Monitor",
"com.apple.ncplugin.stocks"
);
preferences = {
"com.apple.nc.disclosures" = {
enabled = 1;
};
"com.apple.nc.today.date" = {
enabled = 1;
};
"com.apple.nc.today.dnd" = {
enabled = 1;
};
"com.apple.nc.today.summary" = {
enabled = 1;
};
"com.apple.nc.tomorrow.summary" = {
enabled = 1;
};
};
};
bannerTime = 5;
"last-messagetrace-stamp" = "551957496.077987";
so they're missing there. Does that mean there's a defaults write to put them back?